{"id":467,"date":"2019-04-03T21:01:08","date_gmt":"2019-04-04T01:01:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/?p=467"},"modified":"2020-08-08T16:59:43","modified_gmt":"2020-08-08T20:59:43","slug":"mangiare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/mangiare\/","title":{"rendered":"mangiare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Growing up in an Italian household, I\u2019ve been raised with a plethora of wholesome values, the biggest of which being a passionate appreciation for food.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Food traditionally brings people together. Despite anyone\u2019s busy schedule, no rational person can turn away a pot of pasta with oven roasted marinara sauce. No argument can ruin a platter of caprese salad with home grown beefsteak tomatoes. No conversation can lull while in the presence of fresh Italian bread and savory dipping oils.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">And most importantly, no disagreement can withstand a bottle of good, strong vino.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">I\u2019ve taken advantage of my family dinners around my grandmother\u2019s homemade gnocci, spending an obscene amount of time and money selecting imported cheeses at ethnic grocery stores for get togethers, and having panettone as a special treat on Christmas morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">For most of my childhood, I thought that because this was my normal, it was <i>everyone\u2019s <\/i>normal. I\u2019ve spent a good part of my life desensitized to my European heritage, and it wasn\u2019t until my family\u2019s recent pilgrimage to the old country that I began to not only understand but embrace it.<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-468 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833-1024x701.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"438\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833-1024x701.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833-300x206.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833-768x526.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0833.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Our grandiose two week Italian adventure encompassed all the major tourist sites: we gawked at the Sistine Chapel, rode a Venetian gondola, sipped limoncello along the Amalfi Coast, watched the sun set behind the Trevi Fountain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">We indulged in the finest Italian cuisine: daily gelato of exotic flavors, countless slices of Neapolitan pizza, gallons of cappuccinos and buckets of red wine. We dined everywhere from five star vineyards rested on Mount Vesuvius to cheesy tourist traps in claustrophobic Venetian alleyways.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Yet the my most vivid and favorite culinary memory I have is one of Pescocostanzo, a quaint town nestled in the mountains of Italy\u2019s Abruzzo region.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Pescocostanzo is rich in its history, unique in its lifestyle and charming in its simplicity. And it was here that my grandfather was raised before he immigrated to the United States at the age of 15.<\/span><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"padding: 0 15px; float: right;\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/track\/16pUlUFjyp6BtDtxC0i9ch\" width=\"300\" height=\"380\" frameborder=\"0\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Next door to his childhood apartment is his best friend\u2019s humble summer home. Though Giancarlo is no longer with us, his wife invited all five members of my family for lunch during our stay. Little did we know \u201clunch\u201d meant a home-cooked, three-course meal that could outshine all cuisine in the entire Italian countryside.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Even better than the appetizer of fresh mozzarella, asiago and feta drizzled with honey was the joyful conversation (despite a difficult language barrier, we learned that laughter is universal).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Even better than the homemade pasta e fagioli was the good company of beloved friends.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Even better than the espresso, cookies and grappe was the palpable, authentic love, hospitality and warmth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Another virtue my Italian family has pressed upon me is the embrace of friends as family. Growing up, my household always had an extra seat at the dinner table; the front door was always open. My closest \u201caunts\u201d and \u201cuncles\u201d were often those unrelated by blood.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">I\u2019ve later come to learn that my mother implemented this lifestyle during my adolescence because my grandmother did the same during hers, and it would be fair to assume that the pattern repeats itself for generations past.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">This explained why this meal with people I had just met days prior made me feel like I was at home. It made me feel like family. And I realized that that\u2019s just the Italian way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Italians don\u2019t just <i>have<\/i> meals; they <i>share <\/i>them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">It took me years\u201421, in fact\u2014 to appreciate how very special family history is, but spending five days in Pescocostanzo solidified my appreciation, my gratitude, my pride.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">I experienced firsthand the beautiful heritage that runs in my veins. I felt as if I were painted into all of my grandfather\u2019s Kodak photos I\u2019d seen in transparent album sleeves my whole life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">I finally tasted the crisp mountain air, walked along the same cobblestone roads my grandfather trekked across when he was young, heard the ancient church bells chime at the wee hours of the morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-470 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119-1024x682.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/DSC_0119.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">I sipped cappuccinos in the piazza while soaking in warm morning sun, overheard beautiful foreign words exchanged between my grandfather and his many dear friends, relished in the music-filled, chilly evenings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Here is where I felt closest to the very-best-version-of-myself; here is where I felt at home\u2014and for good reason, I suppose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Leaving Pescocostanzo was one of the most emotional departures I\u2019ve ever had to undergo. Surrounding my tear-filled visions of our last evening saying adieu to the faces we had come to know, are swirling thoughts about how quickly strangers had become loved ones.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">Even more difficult than trying to take a piece of Pescocostanzo with me back to the States was the feeling that a piece of me was left there, following by my uncertainty in ever having the chance to go back and retrieve it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">When asked about whether or not I will return to the home country someday, I answer in the same few words as my grandfather: \u201cGod willing.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div><em><span style=\"font-kerning: none;\">This piece was originally published in\u00a0La Nostra Voce&#8217;s April edition, an Italian newspaper in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.<\/span><\/em><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><em>Feature photo taken by Me.<\/em><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Growing up in an Italian household, I\u2019ve been raised with a plethora of wholesome values, the biggest of which being a passionate appreciation for food.\u00a0 Food traditionally brings people together. 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