{"id":516,"date":"2019-06-26T19:12:26","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T23:12:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/?p=516"},"modified":"2022-02-13T10:04:04","modified_gmt":"2022-02-13T15:04:04","slug":"mind-the-gap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/mind-the-gap\/","title":{"rendered":"mind the gap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m finishing up this piece at 5:30 am EST, watching the sunrise through the living room window of my new apartment after sleeping on a new mattress, my arms sore from building the wooden bed frame the day before.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I instinctively brewed myself a cup of English Breakfast, just like I had done yesterday afternoon\u2014and the 24 afternoons prior.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"padding-right: 5px; float: left;\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/track\/0pQskrTITgmCMyr85tb9qq\" width=\"300\" height=\"380\" frameborder=\"0\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>My body has succumbed itself to intense jet lag; my brain still thinking it\u2019s 10:30 am in London, and my heart desperately wanting to go along with it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been asked a lot of questions already about my three-week English adventure, one most recently being if I\u2019d taken a lot of photos. I was a bit surprised at myself when I said no.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve dragged my camera across the world without question; it\u2019s taken portraits of children in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/te-amo\/\">Nicaragua<\/a>, it\u2019s captured moments of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/mambo-italiano\/\">homecoming<\/a> in Italy. However for some reason, its stint in the United Kingdom felt more like a hindrance than a benefit.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I think I realized how much I hate both being a \u201cphotographer\u201d\u2014I use this word <i>very<\/i> loosely\u2014and a \u201ctourist\u201d when during our week in North Yorkshire, I realized after carrying my Nikon through pouring rain and juggling it along a crowded train ride that I had neglected to change out the dead battery with the fresh one the night before.<\/p>\n<p>I felt a pit in my stomach followed by an immense feeling of burden now having to carry around a useless camera for the rest of the day when I should have been enjoying in the charming city of York.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-519 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-675x900.jpg 675w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-360x480.jpg 360w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230-270x360.jpg 270w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/IMG_6230.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Yet I have to say that while I felt both defeated and stupid, I couldn\u2019t deny a feeling of relief. It was surprising at first\u2014almost guilty, even\u2014but even more than that, it was freeing.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d accidentally released myself from the \u201cpics or it didn\u2019t happen\u201d mentality. I no longer had to stress about capturing the perfect photo, or capturing a whole day in one iconic shot.<\/p>\n<p>Up until this point, I\u2019d begrudgingly slung my Nikon around my neck while walking an average of 20,000 steps per day through London, only to feel obligated to take a lackluster handful of photos, none of which I actually liked or enjoyed.<\/p>\n<p>It all seemed like a waste, and by the third week, I started embarking out on the city while leaving my camera behind at the flat, and as much as I hate to admit it, some of my favorite photos from this trip have been from my outdated iPhone SE that I\u2019ve intentionally put in grayscale and haven\u2019t updated the operating system in at least two years.<\/p>\n<p>And even these photos are nothing special. They\u2019re not the ideal composition, they\u2019re probably overexposed, and they might be slightly out of focus. But I guess you have to know the rules in order to break them, and I\u2019ve practiced photography long enough to release myself from perfection.<\/p>\n<p>The reality of the matter is that whether or not I have photos doesn\u2019t negate the fact that I\u2019ve gawked over Da Vinci\u2019s sketchbooks not once but twice.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t take away the fact that I cried sitting in a room full of Rothko\u2019s at the Tate Modern, overcome with the emotion he had intended with his contemplative, immersive canvases.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t invalidate my seeing Rembrandt and Van Gogh somewhere other than an art history lecture slide for the first time in my life.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t nullify my surreal experience of touring Jimi Hendrix\u2019s flat on Brook Street.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-522 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-675x900.jpg 675w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-360x480.jpg 360w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews-270x360.jpg 270w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/warren-mews.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t refute my excitement of seeing original William Morris wallpaper after wandering through the extensive Victoria and Albert Museum.<\/p>\n<p>That I\u2019ve perused more vintage stores and charity shops than I can count.<\/p>\n<p>That I\u2019ve attended two indie concerts at London\u2019s equivalent to DC\u2019s Black Cat.<\/p>\n<p>That I walked across Abbey Road [twice] just like John, Paul, George, Ringo and the million tourists before me.<\/p>\n<p>That I\u2019ve stood at real life Hogsmeade Station, Platform 9 3\/4, Diagon Alley and 12 Grimmauld Place.<\/p>\n<p>The late writer Susan Sontag said it best: \u201cTaking photographs is also a way of refusing [experience]\u2014by limiting experience to a search for the photogenic, by converting experience into an image, a souvenir.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m learning that constantly viewing life through a lens aside from your own iris ironically blurs what should really be in focus.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I wasn\u2019t in London to be a tourist. I wasn\u2019t there on vacation. I wasn\u2019t there to ride the London Eye or take a selfie in front of Big Ben. I was there to experience a city that has a rich history and equally rich appreciation for the arts. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Why should I limit myself to admiring design from a distance to get it in full view, rather than walking up and appreciating the detail?<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"padding: 0 15px; float: right;\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/track\/342blsuTdiJGEFKFiUxYpH\" width=\"300\" height=\"380\" frameborder=\"0\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I developed an aversion to filling my SD card with raw image files this time around. I wanted to feel like I was living in England for this brief moment, rather than visiting; like I was immersing myself in a culture rather than intruding upon it. Clicking my shutter away at every red telephone booth, double decker bus and royal guard seemed disingenuous of that motive.<\/p>\n<p>The pinnacle of this was revelation occurred on one of my final days. After a long morning of wandering around by myself, wearing a denim jacket and t-shirt I\u2019d recently thrifted, I walked into the closest Tube station, picked up an Evening Post along the way and while simultaneously reading the headlines, mindlessly navigated my way through the maze of tunnels to take a transfer to exit at Great Portland Street.<\/p>\n<p>That day in The Underground, I didn&#8217;t feel American. I didn&#8217;t feel intimidated. Instead I felt acclimated. I&#8217;d go as far as to say I felt confident, even.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m far from a Londoner. I\u2019m far from English. But taking the same advice as I did years ago from my photography mentors\/friends, you have to fake it until you make it, and I think outwardly in that moment I did just that.<\/p>\n<p>Mind you, photography certainly has its place, and I\u2019m a firm believer that photographs serve as eternal time capsules when our memories inevitably fail us. I also recognize that I\u2019ve gotten immense value from it in the past, and likely will again sometime in the future.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Also, as a disclaimer I\u2019m certainly not discrediting all the photographers in my life who love their craft and get immense joy from it. In fact, I\u2019m a bit envious because I used to have that same vigor, at least to an extent.<\/p>\n<p>But what I\u2019ve seen go to the wayside\u2014by myself included\u2014is intentionality, both as a lifestyle and as an art.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-542 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-252x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"252\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-252x300.jpg 252w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-768x913.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-862x1024.jpg 862w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-757x900.jpg 757w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-404x480.jpg 404w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2-303x360.jpg 303w, http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kew2.jpg 1056w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 252px) 100vw, 252px\" \/><\/a>I think what taught me this lesson most is my 1980&#8217;s Polaroid land camera. I packed this little gem of nostalgia along with my DSLR, slightly nervous to use it because I only had six frames, and with a pack of film that cost four times more than the camera itself, it had to be a pretty damn good moment to use up a $2 square.<\/p>\n<p>I really had to convince myself that something was worth photographing, and those brief minutes of indecision forced me to remain present in the given instance.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s these overexposed, grainy, off-center images that I\u2019ve palmed through most these past few days. They\u2019ve proved to be much more gratifying than scrolling through my camera roll.<\/p>\n<p>And even with those printed mementos, the most outstanding souvenir of any trip abroad is the jet lag; it sometimes feels like the only evidence that our travels weren\u2019t just some realistic dream.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve returned home with not only a constant craving for tea and Digestives, but a renewed appreciation for typography, rekindled desire for blind contour sketches, a refreshing look on color pallets, and most importantly, a love for life\u2019s contrasts: fast and slow, city and country, tranquil and chaos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>Feature photo of William Morris&#8217;s wreath wallpaper (1876), photographed at the V&amp;A by Me<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>All other photos taken by Me<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m finishing up this piece at 5:30 am EST, watching the sunrise through the living room window of my new apartment after sleeping on a new mattress, my arms sore from building the wooden bed frame the day before.\u00a0 I instinctively brewed myself a cup of English Breakfast, just like I had done yesterday afternoon\u2014and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":773,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[73,50],"tags":[52,51,26,53],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=516"}],"version-history":[{"count":40,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":856,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/516\/revisions\/856"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.jordanstovka.com\/steepedinsound\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}